My wife is my mom

I am 32 years old. My mother and I are from Finland. My mother gave birth to me at 16 years old. My father was then 34. At that time, according to the law, it was possible to marry a 16-year-old girl under certain conditions (such as pregnancy, recognition of paternity and no claims), which is what my father did in order to avoid going to prison. But he did not love my mother and practically did not live with us. He got involved in the business of selling cars and the guarantor of many loans was my mother, for whom he made a fake income certificate (where she allegedly had a significant income). When I was 6 years old, my father had a hemorrhagic stroke and died a few days later in the hospital. My mom and I were left alone (her parents died before these events), and my father’s parents and other relatives did not want to communicate with us. All my father’s debts remained with my mom, which she tried to pay off. Along the way, my mom invested all her resources into my education. From an early age I considered my mom the most beautiful woman, but when I entered adolescence, I realized that I really loved my mom as a woman. I grew up as an ordinary guy - nothing special; Before I was 16, I had two short experiences of sexual intercourse with girls. But almost always I tried to spend time with my mom. We spent our leisure time together, went to various events, movies, etc. Sometimes in the evenings my mother and I drank wine (yes, when I was a teenager I could drink wine with my mother) and when I was 16 years old, one evening my mother and I drank too much and we had sex. True, the next day my mom was in a bad mood, but the next day I told her in detail about my feelings and that I will not start a relationship with anyone and start a family except with her. Later, I went to study in another city at college, where during my short holidays my mom arrived in a completely different image - she introduced herself to my friends as my girlfriend. This is actually how our relationship began. At first it was all awkward and strange, but later my mother and I really became like boyfriend and girlfriend. I got a job where I found a good boss and he, having learned my story with my father’s debts, helped me get a well-paid position. I saved enough money to pay off all my father's debts and when I did this, I told my mom about it - she was very touched. It was then that I suggested changing our passports and leaving for another country and starting a new life there, where no one knows us. We left for Hungary, where at first it was very difficult for us: new customs, language, lack of money and problems with employment. The main problem was obtaining citizenship. This problem was not resolved in a completely honest way, but in the end my mom and I received citizenship and were able to enter into an official marriage. We wanted to have children, but for eight years we were unable to get pregnant. But now we have two babies: the firstborn is a daughter and the second is a son. In general, I mention many moments from our history in posts. And I tried to tell our story extremely briefly. In fact, it is quite long and has many nuances.